The Shmuz on Bitachon: Finding and Keeping your Soul Mate

The shadchan says in that singsong voice -"So tell me what you're looking for?" And out comes the laundry list. �I need someone who is extroverted funny, and outgoing.� "I need a woman who is very frum, tolerant, and kind.� �I need a bachur who is a take-charge type, strong, but not headstrong.� The lists are long, and the benchmarks are detailed and specific. And unwittingly, that is how many people make their first big mistake in dating. They aren�t looking for their bashert (predestined match); they have already formed him in their minds, and now they�re looking for the one that comes the closest to that image. This powerful little book addresses these issues: Avoid the two big mistakes that most people make when dating. What to look for, what not to look for in a spouse The biggest mistake married couples make What happens if you think you married the wrong one?