Talking to Your Children about Intimacy: A Guide for Orthodox Jewish Parents

Talking to Your Children About Intimacy is a practical, thoughtful guide for Orthodox Jewish parents who want to educate their children about intimacy, sexuality, and relationships from a Torah perspective. Authored by Sara Diament, M.A., and endorsed with rabbinic approbations (haskamos) from Rav Hershel Schachter, Rav Mordechai Willig, and Rabbi Dr. Abraham J. Twerski, this book combines religious guidance with practical strategies to address one of the most sensitive areas of parenting.

Written in a conversational, approachable style, the book helps parents understand the Jewish view of intimacy and provides clear, actionable guidance on how to communicate these values effectively to children and teenagers. It addresses common challenges that arise when discussing sexual topics, including discomfort, embarrassment, and fear of over-sharing, and offers strategies for overcoming these barriers.

The guide emphasizes age-appropriate dialogue, helping parents know what to say and when to say it, and encourages engagement that evolves as the child grows from early childhood through adolescence. By blending Torah-based values with real-world parenting advice, Diament empowers parents to foster open communication, trust, and understanding within the family.

Through examples, practical tips, and thoughtful explanations, this book enables parents to confidently navigate these conversations while ensuring that their children develop a healthy understanding of intimacy, sexuality, and the moral and ethical framework of their faith. Ultimately, Talking to Your Children About Intimacy is an essential resource for parents seeking to balance religious principles, emotional sensitivity, and factual guidance in raising children who are informed, respectful, and confident about matters of intimacy.